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Today, we’re exploring the transformative power of trauma-informed therapy. This approach is designed to create a safe and supportive environment for you as an individual or as a couple to deal with the effects of trauma, enabling healing and personal and relational growth.
What is Trauma-Informed Therapy?
Trauma-informed therapy is an approach that recognizes the widespread impact of various types of trauma and understands potential paths for recovery. We focus on creating a safe and trustworthy environment and work on empowering you by helping you recognize your strengths and intrinsic value. We are sensitive to your personal and unique needs as someone struggling to navigate life and relationships successfully.
The Core Principles of Trauma-Informed Therapy
Safety: It is critical to create a safe physical and emotional environment by being able to truly listen and understand the client and what s/he is bringing, to really be able to see him or her for who he or she is. Often, therapy is the first place that the client has ever sincerely felt, seen, or heard. Experiencing the therapist’s efforts to get to know you can strengthen your sense of self.
Trustworthiness and Transparency: When the therapist’s goal is to put everything else aside and focus on the client's needs, it builds trust, which is essential. Therapists work to establish a clear and transparent relationship where clients are encouraged to share how they feel about the therapy and about the therapist’s methods or behaviors that may raise questions or doubts in the client. The client is reminded of this regularly and is not judged when they voice their beliefs, feelings, or opinions.
Empowerment, Voice, and Choice: When people are able to share their thoughts openly, without facing criticism or judgment, and instead are met with curiosity and a genuine desire to understand, they develop self-confidence. Their sense of worth grows, and they gain agency, leading to empowerment and autonomy.
Collaboration and Mutuality: Empowerment and autonomy in the client foster a co-creative therapeutic process where both client and therapist actively collaborate in healing. This approach not only models the healthy, collaborative relationships the client seeks to cultivate but also promotes the development of healthier interpersonal connections in the client’s life through the strength of the therapeutic relationship.
How Trauma-Informed Therapy Heals
Understanding Trauma Responses: Trauma-informed therapists can identify how a person’s thoughts, feelings, behaviors, and relationships are impacted by their specific traumas. They are aware of symptoms and behaviors caused by trauma and can point out how the client’s relationships are being affected. Clients will gain insight into their daily activities concerning their trauma responses, contributing to higher functionality in all life areas. By identifying trauma responses, clients can start to break free from patterns that hinder their well-being.
Building Coping Skills: Trauma-informed couples therapy focuses on understanding negative coping habits that once helped individuals survive their trauma but have become outdated and often destructive. It aims to develop new, healthy coping strategies to manage stress and emotional pain. Techniques like mindfulness, grounding exercises, and relaxation methods can be incredibly helpful.
Processing Traumatic Memories: As trust in the therapeutic relationship deepens, clients are safely guided through the processing of traumatic memories. If a client is not ready to revisit a specific traumatic memory, their will is respected. Instead, therapy can focus on exploring the associated emotions, bodily sensations, images, and other non-verbal cues. This exploration helps to reduce the emotional intensity of the memories, significantly lessening their negative impact on the client’s life.
Strengthening Relationships: Trauma can strain relationships mainly because a person’s relationship with self has been compromised as a result of an unsafe developmental environment. However, trauma-informed therapy provides tools for improving that relationship with self, enhancing communication, building trust, and fostering emotional intimacy. Individuals and couples will surely grow and benefit from these tools.
My Approach to Trauma-Informed Therapy
In my practice, I integrate various therapeutic modalities to address the complex dynamics of trauma. These include:
Somatic & sensorimotor Work: Focusing on the bodily, non-verbal memory to release unwanted responses and recreate desired responses.
Parts Work (IFS): Helping clients recognize the resources they innately have to heal wounds that occurred when they didn’t have access to these healthy resources.
Inner Child Work: Addressing and nurturing the wounded inner child.
Family Systems: Examining and understanding their family’s system and how the learned behaviors of individual family members have contributed to the undesirable status quo. The family’s dynamic can significantly improve with guided incremental changes, enhancing the quality of life for everyone involved in that family system.
Attachment Theory: A sense of security in attachment is imperative to mental health and happiness in people. This sense of security, compromised way too often, can be repaired by developing healthy, trusting relationships. The therapeutic relationship can be a source of this healing.
Jewish spirituality and Mindfulness can be part of the therapy process for those who find them meaningful. These modalities offer a holistic approach to the emotional, mental, and spiritual support needed to develop a sense of agency and autonomy, providing a comprehensive healing experience.
Moving Forward
Healing from trauma is a journey, and trauma-informed therapy offers a compassionate and effective path to recovery. Compassion is not about sympathy; it is about understanding and acceptance without judgment or criticism. A person who has suffered trauma is not to be pitied; they possess intrinsic value and have faced challenging experiences. They deserve to be understood and accepted. By creating a safe, empowering, and supportive environment, trauma-informed therapy helps individuals and couples move toward emotional wellness and healthier relationships.
Thank you for being part of this journey. If you have any questions or need further support, please reach out, and we can see if working with me will work for you😉. Together, we can navigate the path to healing and growth.
Stay tuned for more insights and tips in our upcoming posts. Let’s continue to learn and grow together.
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